Should kids get paid for chores?
Quick answer
Mostly no.
Not for everyday chores. Keep a short unpaid list, plus optional paid jobs.
Mostly no, for everyday chores. Tidying up after yourself, clearing the table, and keeping your own room are part of being in a household, and paying for them tends to make children treat help as optional unless money appears. The approach that holds up best is a short list of unpaid family responsibilities, plus a separate, optional list of bigger paid jobs your child can choose to take on.
What to consider
- The difference between contribution and work
- Contribution is what everyone does because they live here. Work is extra effort someone could reasonably be hired to do. Keeping those two lists separate resolves most of the argument.
- What happens when they refuse
- With paid chores, a child who does not need money has a legitimate reason to say no. Decide now whether you are comfortable with that.
- Your tracking tolerance
- Chore-payment systems fail on administration far more often than on principle. If you will not maintain a chart, do not design one that needs a chart.
- Age
- Younger children need chores that are visible and immediate. Teenagers can handle jobs with a deadline rather than a moment.
The numbers
Unpaid family responsibilities
2 to 5 recurring tasks
Enough to be a real contribution, few enough to remember without a chart. More than about five and consistency drops sharply.
Our working range
Typical paid extras
$3 to $15 per job
Sized so that a child has to do several to reach a goal. If one job funds everything they want, the earning link stops mattering.
Our working range
Age-appropriate load
Roughly 10 to 15 minutes a day at 6, up to 30 at 12
A practical planning range rather than a researched standard. The reliable signal is whether it can be done without you supervising.
Our working range
Your options
Work out your number
Allowance per week
$8
for an 8-year-old, or $416 a year
One unit per year of age, each week
What this means
Saving the suggested 40% is $3.20 a week, which reaches a first $100 in about 32 weeks. If your child spends it all and feels no trade-off, the allowance probably covers too little: move something onto their budget rather than raising the number.
A dollar per year of age is a widely used convention, not a researched benchmark. Treat it as a defensible starting point and adjust for what you want the allowance to teach.
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Your action plan
Do firstThis week
- Write two lists: what everyone does here, and what can be earned.
- Keep the unpaid list to five items or fewer, stated as specific actions.
- Put a price on three optional jobs and post them where they are visible.
- Tell your child the unpaid list is not available for negotiation.
ThenNext month
- Drop any unpaid task that has not been done once without a reminder, and replace it with something simpler.
- Add one job that takes real effort, priced accordingly.
Keep an eye onWatch for
- Your child asks what they get for ordinary help. That means the lists have blurred.
- You are reminding daily, which usually means the task is unclear rather than that they are unwilling.
- The paid list becomes the only list.
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A practical system for teaching allowance, saving, spending, earning and responsibility, organised by age. The answer above is free and always will be. This is for the part that has to happen every week afterwards.
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- For
- Ages 6 to 16
- The problem
- You want to teach your child about money, but it is unclear what to teach, how much to give, and when to introduce each idea.
- What changes
- Set an allowance that suits your child's age and actually teaches something
- Separate family responsibility from paid work, and hold the line
- Make saving automatic instead of a weekly argument
Common questions
What if my child just refuses the unpaid chores?
Consequences work better than payment here, and the most effective ones are natural: the thing does not happen, or a privilege that depends on your effort pauses until theirs resumes.
Is it wrong to pay for anything?
No. Paying for genuinely extra work is how earning gets taught. The distinction that matters is between contribution and work, not between paid and unpaid.
Where these numbers come from
- Last reviewed
- October 1, 2026
- Geography
- United States
The ranges on this page are practical planning ranges from our own judgement, not findings from a dataset, and are labelled that way. No source is cited because none supplies them.
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